The 3-Document System: How I Stopped Losing My Best Ideas Across 100 AI Conversations

Why longer context windows and memory features still can't solve the "lost conversation" problem - and what actually works.

There’s a specific kind of AI waste nobody talks about.

Not the time spent writing prompts. Not the tokens used on bad outputs. Not even the hours chasing new tools.

It’s the time spent recreating frameworks you’ve already built.

You have a conversation with Claude that produces something useful—a workflow that solves a real problem. You use it once, it works perfectly, then you move on to the next thing.

Weeks pass. You need that exact workflow for a different project. You search your chat history. You scroll through conversations. You find nothing because everything’s titled “Strategy help” or “Writing question.”

You give up and rebuild the whole thing from scratch.

I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve done this. The worst part is sometimes I’ll stumble across the original conversation days later, completely by accident. Right there the whole time, just impossible to locate when I actually needed it.

AI memory features don’t fix this.

They help the AI remember facts about you, sure. But they don’t capture the reasoning process behind your best decisions. They don’t preserve the context that made a framework work. They don’t solve the retrieval problem when you’re hunting for something specific.

Today’s guest post is from

Ilia Karelin

, who writes Prosper, the newsletter about AI and software that gives you an unfair knowledge advantage.

If you want to dig deeper into what he writes about, check out these three latest posts:

1. Type “Shop” In The Chat!

2. I used to burn through my Windsurf Pro credits by day 20 every month. Now I finish with 30% remaining

3. The Great Migration Is Happening

In this post, Ilia’s built a dead-simple system to stop this waste: three documents that preserve what matters to ensure AI remembers your strategic context.

I think this is super useful to build a collaboration system with AI that understands how you think.

Here’s Ilia.

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Hello, Ilia’s here 👋🏻

Picture this scenario: You have a breakthrough conversation with Claude about your content strategy. The AI helps you see a pattern you’ve been missing: your “viral” posts get thousands of likes but zero business results, while your detailed breakdowns generate actual clients. Together, you map out a complete pivot—depth over frequency, searchability over engagement, compound value over consumable content. You close the tab feeling like you’ve unlocked something huge.

Three weeks later, you need that insight for a client presentation. You open Claude and see:

• “Content Help”

• “Marketing Strategy”

• “Strategic Pivot”

• “Writing Ideas”

• “Content Strategy v2”

• “Marketing Thoughts”

Useless. Absolutely useless.

You spent 20 minutes hunting through conversations, gave up, and recreated the entire strategic framework from scratch. Again.

Sound familiar?

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The Memory Illusion

Here’s what makes this so frustrating: we’re living in the era of AI memory breakthroughs.

For example, ChatGPT now references all your past conversations to deliver more personalized responses, and Claude’s memory feature lets you pick up exactly where you left off on long-term projects The AI companies have solved the memory problem, right?

Wrong.

They’ve solved the AI’s memory problem. They haven’t solved yours.

The AI remembers facts about you: “User prefers concise responses. User works in B2B SaaS. User has a dog named Max.” That’s helpful for generating better responses.

But what the AI doesn’t capture - what no memory feature can capture - is the strategic reasoning process that led to your best decisions.

When you have that breakthrough conversation where AI helps you think through a complex problem, what matters isn’t just the conclusion. It’s:

• Why you chose option A over option B

• What alternatives you considered and rejected

• The specific context that made this decision right

• The reasoning chain that got you there

That thinking process? It’s trapped in a conversation titled “Project Help” somewhere in your history of 100+ chats.

AI systems struggle with persistent memory across sessions, but even when they remember, you can’t retrieve the strategic context you need.

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The Real Cost of Lost Conversations

This isn’t just annoying. It’s expensive. It cost your time.

I’ve watched this pattern repeat across my work:

• Decision Debt: You rehash the same strategic debates because you can’t remember why you made certain choices. “Why did we decide not to do paid ads again? What was our reasoning?” Start from scratch.

• Recreated Insights: You have the same “aha!” moment three times because you lost the first two. Each time feels novel until you vaguely remember having this exact realization before.

• Context Switching: Every new AI conversation requires explaining your entire situation again. “I’m a B2B marketer, I have 6 hours per week, I’ve already decided X and Y, here’s my constraint Z...” Five minutes of setup before you can even start thinking. This also costs tokens.

• Institutional Amnesia: You’re building zero institutional knowledge of your own strategic thinking. Your best insights vanish into the void.

Leading companies waste millions of dollars due to ineffective knowledge sharing. You and I are no different. The problem isn’t that AI forgets. The problem is that we have no system for capturing what matters.

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The Solution: A Personal Knowledge Management System for AI

After losing my tenth breakthrough conversation, here’s what I would suggest.

Not an AI memory feature. Not a complicated note-taking app. Not another layer of technology that requires maintenance.

Just three simple documents that capture the only things that actually matter:

1. The Decision Log - What you chose and why

2. The Insight Library - Your breakthrough moments

3. The Context Primer - Your current situation

That’s it. 3 documents. Lives in Google Docs (I’ve been using Notion for years, but it’s whatever your prefer, although Notion is a bit more complicated to set up and learn). Shouldn’t take long to set it up.

Here’s why this works when memory features don’t:

You control what’s captured. Not an algorithm deciding what’s “important enough” to remember. You. And you know what’s important best.

It captures process, not just facts. The reasoning behind decisions, not just the conclusions.

It works across all AI tools. Switch from ChatGPT to Claude to whatever comes next? Your knowledge stays with you.

It’s searchable by you. Your words, your categories, your mental model of how things connect.

It compounds over time. Each entry builds on the last. Patterns emerge. Your strategic thinking improves.

Let me show you exactly how to build this.

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*Note: The templates below include example entries to show how the system works in practice. These scenarios are based on common patterns that I’ve seen in my content creation and when talking to others. Your own entries will reflect your actual decisions, insights, and context - making them even more valuable.

Document 1: The Decision Log

What it captures: Major decisions and the strategic reasoning behind them
What it prevents: Rehashing old debates and decision debt

The Template:

DATE: [Date]
DECISION: [What you decided in one line]

WHY: [The core reason - 2-3 sentences max]

ALTERNATIVES: [What you almost chose instead]

CHECK BACK: [Date to review if this was right]

AI CHAT: [Link if you used Claude or ChatGPT]

Example Entry (What This Looks Like in Practice):

DATE: Sept 15, 2025
DECISION: LinkedIn-first content strategy, email newsletter becomes secondary

WHY: Newsletter taking 8 hours/week to reach 200 people with 18% open rates. LinkedIn posts getting 5-10x engagement in less time. Current constraint is 6 hours/week max for my own content. Need to optimize for reach given time limits, not chase the “own your audience” ideal.

ALTERNATIVES: Almost doubled down on email with better segmentation and 
subject line optimization. Would have required MORE time we don’t have. 
Also considered doing both equally—totally unsustainable at 15hrs/week.

CHECK BACK: Dec 15, 2025

AI CHAT: claude.ai/chat/abc123

Why this matters: Three months from now, when I’m tempted to “fix” my email strategy, I open this log and remember: we already debated this. The constraint hasn’t changed. Don’t waste a week relitigating a settled decision.

The key insight: Past you already did the thinking. Trust them.

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Document 2: The Insight Library

What it captures: “Aha!” moments that change how you think
What it prevents: Losing breakthrough realizations

The Template:

[DATE] | #[CATEGORY]

THE INSIGHT:
[Your “aha!” moment in 1-2 sentences]

WHAT IT CHANGES:
- [How you’ll use this - 3 bullets max]

SOURCE: [AI chat link or where this came from]

Sample Entry:

Sept 8, 2025 | #CONTENT-STRATEGY

THE INSIGHT:
Viral content peaks and dies. Valuable content compounds. Stop optimizing for engagement (likes/shares). Start optimizing for utility (saves/returns). A post with 500 likes forgotten in 48 hours is worth less than a post with 50 saves that gets referenced for months.

WHAT IT CHANGES:
- Before posting, ask: “Will someone want to find this in 3 months?”
- Optimize titles for searchability, not just click-through
- Create a “best of” section people can browse
- Measure success by saves, restacks, and DMs, not vanity metrics

SOURCE: claude.ai/chat/abc123

UPDATE (Oct 8): Implemented. Content saves up 3x. DM quality is higher.

Why this format works: This type of insight shapes every piece of content you create going forward. Without capturing it, you drift back to old habits within weeks.

Categories to consider: #STRATEGY, #CONTENT, #MARKETING, #PRODUCT, #PROCESS, #MINDSET, #CUSTOMER, #TECHNICAL

Pro tip: When you have an insight, capture it within 24 hours. After that, the nuance fades and you’re left with “I had a good idea about something...”

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Document 3: The Context Primer

What it captures: Your current situation, constraints, and settled decisions
What it prevents: Starting every AI conversation from zero

The Template:

CONTEXT PRIMER - Updated: [Date]

WHO I AM:
[1-2 sentences about your work]

WHAT I’M WORKING ON RIGHT NOW:
- [Project 1]
- [Project 2]
- [Project 3]

MY CONSTRAINTS:
Time: [hours/week available]
Budget: [$ or “bootstrapped”]
Skills: [what you’re good/bad at]

DON’T SUGGEST:
[Thing 1 you definitely can’t/won’t do]
[Thing 2 you definitely can’t/won’t do]

ALWAYS CONSIDER:
- [Thing 1 that’s important to you]
- [Thing 2 that’s important to you]

PAST DECISIONS (already made):
- [Decision 1] - decided [date]
- [Decision 2] - decided [date]

Example in Action:

CONTEXT PRIMER - Updated: Sept 30, 2025

WHO I AM:
B2B SaaS marketing consultant. Help mid-market companies (50-500 employees) build content strategies that drive qualified pipeline.

WHAT I’M WORKING ON RIGHT NOW:
- Guest article for The AI Maker (due Oct 15)
- Q4 content calendar planning (12 weeks mapped)
- Client onboarding template (reusable process)

MY CONSTRAINTS:
Time: 6 hours/week for own content (rest is client work)
Budget: Bootstrapped, $500/month for tools max
Skills: Strong on strategy/writing, weak on technical implementation

DON’T SUGGEST:
Paid ads (no budget until Q1 2026, firm decision)
Daily posting schedule (tested, not sustainable)
Building a team (solo by choice, optimizing for that)

ALWAYS CONSIDER:
- Can this be done in <10 hours/week total?
- Does this work for solo operators?
- Is this actionable within 1 week?
- Does this require paid tools I don’t have?

PAST DECISIONS (already made):
- LinkedIn-first strategy - decided Sept 15 (see Decision Log)
- Depth over frequency - decided Sept 8 (see Insight Library)  
- No courses until 5K followers - decided Aug 20

Why this format works: Copy-paste relevant sections into new AI conversations. Saves 5 minutes of context-setting every time. The AI immediately understands your constraints and stops suggesting things you can’t or won’t do.

When to use it:

• Starting a new conversation on a complex topic

• Working with a new AI or tool

• When you need strategic advice aligned with your reality

• Onboarding someone to help you (human or AI)

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Making the AI Actually Use Your Documents

Here’s the part most people miss: you need to tell the AI to reference your documents at the start of each conversation.

The Opening Prompt Template:

Before we start, I have three documents that contain my strategic context:

[Paste or attach your Context Primer]
[Paste relevant sections from Decision Log]
[Paste relevant insights from Insight Library]

Please reference these throughout our conversation:
- Don’t suggest things in my “DON’T SUGGEST” list
- Build on past decisions rather than revisiting them
- Consider my actual constraints
- Connect today’s thinking to past insights

Here’s what I need help with: [your actual question]

Quick version for fast conversations:

Quick context: [paste just the relevant parts of Context Primer]

Now, [your question]

Pro tip: Keep your Context Primer in a pinned Google Doc. When starting any strategic AI conversation, spend 30 seconds copy-pasting the relevant sections. Those 30 seconds save 5 minutes of back-and-forth.

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How to Actually Implement This

Step 1: Create 3 Google Docs

Open Google Docs. Create:

• “AI Decision Log”

• “AI Insight Library”

• “AI Context Primer”

Star/favorite all three so they’re easy to find.

Step 2: Copy the Templates

Copy the simple templates I showed above into each document. That’s your structure, but obviously, you will have to change them according to your needs.

Step 3: Make Your First Entries

• Decision Log: Add one recent decision you made

• Insight Library: Capture one good idea you’ve had recently

• Context Primer: Fill in the basics about who you are and what you’re working on

Done. You now have a system.

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The End-of-Conversation Ritual

After any AI conversation that produces something valuable, ask yourself:

“Did I make a decision?” → Add to Decision Log
“Did I have an insight?” → Add to Insight Library
“Did my situation change?” → Update Context Primer

That’s it. 10 minutes. But those 10 minutes are the difference between building institutional knowledge and losing everything.

Try this prompt at the end of valuable conversations:

“Help me capture what matters from this conversation:

1. What decision did I make (if any)?

2. What was my key insight?

3. How should I remember this in 3 months?”

The AI helps you distill the conversation into the entries you need!

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What Tool Should You Use?

Start with Google Docs. Seriously.

Here’s why most people fail at knowledge management: they over-engineer the system. They spend hours building the perfect Notion database with custom properties and filtered views, then abandon it after two weeks because it feels like work.

Google Docs advantages:

• You already have it

• Zero learning curve

• Fast (open in 2 seconds from any device)

• Universal search works great

• Can’t get distracted by “organizing the system”

When to upgrade to Notion:

Only if you’re already using Notion daily AND you want features like:

• Database views (filter insights by category, date)

• Templates with auto-fill properties

• Connected databases (link insights to decisions automatically)

A Notion setup could include:

• Decision Log: Database with properties: Date, Decision, Category, Status, Link

• Insight Library: Database with properties: Date, Insight, Category, Priority, Applied (checkbox)

• Context Primer: Simple page with toggle lists

But honestly? Starting with Google Docs works perfectly for months before you might feel limited.

The rule: The best tool is the one you’ll actually use. Simple beats sophisticated.

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Why This Works When Memory Features Don’t

Let me be clear: AI memory features are getting better. ChatGPT’s memory improvements now reference both saved memories and chat history. That’s useful for personalization.

But here’s what those features can’t do:

They can’t prioritize what matters to you. An algorithm decides what’s “important.” You don’t.

They can’t capture strategic reasoning. They remember facts, not thought processes.

They’re locked to one platform. Switch from ChatGPT to Claude? Your “memory” doesn’t transfer.

They’re optimized for the AI, not for you. Memory helps the AI give better responses. It doesn’t help YOU retrieve your best thinking.

They don’t build institutional knowledge. You’re not learning from your past decisions because you can’t easily review them.

This system is the opposite:

• You control what’s captured

• You own the data

• It works across all AI tools

• It’s optimized for human retrieval

• It builds compound knowledge over time

Think of it this way: AI memory features are for the AI’s benefit. This system is for yours.

Start with one document. Make one entry. Build from there.

Your future self will thank you.